And I lived together with three Malaysian women during college. I dated two (none of the two I lived with) and one of my closest friends is a traditional Malay girl. God knows why, but we had hundreds of them on our campus.
Sure, it’s a South East Asian country, but that doesn’t mean that you can compare the girls to the ones you can find on various Thai, Vietnamese, and Filipina online dating sites. But I promise you that, after you have read this article, you’ll know everything about them and about how you can meet, attract and date them.
Let me show you what I learned from living with them, dating them, and from two unforgettable trips to the capital of this fascinating country…
The 3 Types of Malaysian Girls You Will Meet
- Traditional Malay girls
- Chinese girls
- Indian girls
Okay, I have to be honest. I dated a Chinese girl and an Indian girl and I failed miserably with a Malay girl.
But I will never forget the time I spent with the Chinese girl. I have to thank her for some of the most memorable experiences in my life. Even though I dated a Malaysian Indian girl on the side (we had an open relationship), she was devastated when it was time to say goodbye.
It was an intense experience, but it was also an experience that taught me all the things that I want to share with you in this article…
1. You Can Date Muslim Women in Malaysia
I’m sorry to say this but 50% of the women in this country might not be for you. I’m not saying that they are not interested in you. They are. Some of them are so sick and tired of the restrictions that go along with their Muslim belief that they are yearning for an adventure.
Even if you can find a traditional Malay girl who wants to date you, you should still be careful. Meet her in private. Think about it as your secret romance, especially when you are a Western man and you don’t want to convert to Islam.
2. Dating Malaysian Indian Girls is Different
I only went on a few dates with the Indian girl from my university. My dating experience with her was different than anything I ever experienced.
- Whenever her parents called, she talked about me as if I was her husband.
- Whenever we were in private, she was talking like a waterfall.
- Whenever we were in public, she was quite like a church mouse.
She always kept asking me about my future plans and she mentioned the words, family, kids, and marriage a couple of times.
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though she was really attractive (which is pretty rare for Indian women), I was not ready for that. But I learned something from this experience and from talking about it with my Malaysian Indian housemate.
I learned that these girls will treat you like a king in a relationship but ONLY if you are willing to commit. And when I say commit, I really mean it.
3. Dating Malaysian Chinese Girls is a Pleasure
If you are a Muslim and you want to date a traditional Malay girl, go for it. And if you dream about marrying an Indian woman, you have my blessing.
About 25% of women who are living in this country are originally from China. In fact, in Kuala Lumpur 43.2% of the women are Malaysian Chinese.
- Are the most beautiful
- Are more interested in Western men than the Malay and Indian girls